Do you really want it? (part 1)

You hear all the time that men and women discuss all the characteristics that want their mate to possess. However, what is happening is that we are asking for traits that we typically have not found in previous boyfriend or girlfriend. It is true that we do learn what do not want or need from previous but you may not exactly figure out what it is that you do need. I say be careful what you ask for because you just might get it.
It's like this. When you pray and ask for more patience, God does just "zap" and instantly more patience. God places you in situations that you will be tested and and through these trials and tribulations your patience increases, provided your heart is in the right place. So guys when you ask for a woman who keeps up with her appearance, athletic, has a good head on her shoulders, caring, and is family oriented you can find that woman however you have to understand with those traits comes responsibility.
A woman who keeps up with her appearance will more than likely will like to shop. She more than likely will not be getting ready in 5 minutes and will throw on a pair shoes that will compliment her jeans and tops on a regular basis so it will be necessary to let her when you are taking her to an event that will require sneakers and sweats. If she is athletic, you will have male friends. Not male friends that want to sleep with her but friends who just so happen to males. She will be competitive. She will have be a little more independent that your average woman because athletes typically aren't dependent on others; they are used to doing things for themselves. She will probably be a little more adventurous and not scared to get her hands dirty. A woman with a good head on her shoulders will know how to think for herself. She will be your "yes" girl. A "yes" girl is someone who will say yes to whatever you ask of her. She will also be independent (not independent to the point where she does not want a man in her life, she knows how to take care of herself.)
A caring woman will not just care about you. She cares about herself first, others, and causes. She is the woman is usually involved in her community and/or charity events. She gives of herself. She is not always going to just be available to you whenever you want her to because can sometimes live a busy life. She is not self righteous or self absorbed. A family oriented woman has a good relationship with her parents and siblings. They are close to their family. She likes to do things with her family and if you are in her life she will want you to join in those family events from time to time. She will make a good mother and is probably looking to have a family of her own to carry on and begin new traditions. She also can be very caring. She can more of the domestic type. On the other hand depending on her family she maybe be very needy because she could be used to other doing things for her. An educated woman will have thoughts and opinions of her own. You will not be thinking for her. She more than likely will be be goal oriented. She too may be involved in organizations and charity. She really doesn't like to waste time. Also she maybe adventurous. She may like to travel as well.
These are just a few traits to get you thinking. Understand what it is that you asking or looking for in a mate. Some people wants to have certain traits but truly do not like that that person once that find that person who does possess those certain traits because they do not understand what those traits mean. Think about it.