Change Your Mind

I have realized in life we make decisions in life that other do not always understand or think is best of for us. Automatically we go into defense mode and become the Defense Attorney to our life. You do not always have to defend yourself. People question some decisions we make because they care for us and just want the best. It is okay to politely say, "Thank you for your concern but right now I feel this is best for me. Later on if I feel this is not going the way I wanted it to, then we can revisit this and try to determine a better path for me, however for now, I am content with the decision I have made." (Give or take a few words...lol)
Furthermore, I have learned that we are a victim of familiarity. Meaning, we continue to deal, stay, love, and/or like situations that we are in and faced with because we are familiar with them and eventually become comfortable with them. Example: A woman stays in an abusive relationship because she is used to the abuse. It's not healthy, but she stays anyway. She should change her mind. Do not let others determine how your today or tomorrow is going to because because they are "familiar." It's okay to change your mind and dare to be different! Try something new! Change your mind as you see fit!