Thursday, January 7, 2010

First Impressions

First Impressions are dangerous. They can either begin or quickly end relationships that could have been. Your actions, attire, the way you speak, smell, your attitude and so much more goes into the first impression you are bound to make on someone. Unfortunately, your first impression may be your only impression because humans as a species, seems to be programmed to judge others. It doesn't seem fair but it happens...most of the time.

The disturbing part about first impressions is that sometimes they do not allow room for a person to grow, mature, or change. Once the impression has been made, it seems to be set in stone. Remember that even though it's your first impression it doesn't have to be a lasting impression and it should not determine who a person is overall because you are not giving that person to show you who they are completely in a matter of seconds or minutes.

Remember that as quick as you are to cast judgement on another, someone else is casting judgement on you.

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